[Nhhoa] Behavior

Sun Apr 5 14:16:01 CDT 2009

Thank you Kimberly

Erik Leckwold

On Apr 5, 2009, at 2:57 PM, Kimberly Hackler wrote:

> Leckwolds & Ragos,
>
> In thinking about it, and calming down a little, I am truly sorry  
> and appologize for using names in my original email.  I shouldn't  
> have done that and ask for your forgivness.
>
> With Kind Regards,
>
> Kimberly Hackler
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Dianne
> To: Kimberly Hackler ; North Hampton Homeowners Association
> Sent: Sunday, April 05, 2009 2:15 PM
> Subject: Re: [Nhhoa] Behavior
>
> Kimberly,
>
> How dare you.  I had to wait to cool down before I responded to your  
> gossip column.  You are wrong wrong wrong on so many levels.  First  
> thing, what does the way I raise my children have to do with you,  
> this neighborhood, or the board?  You should be ashamed!  You have  
> made your rant very personal.  My children showed better behavior  
> than you did yesterday.  That brings up my second point, nothing in  
> my conversations yesterday was of a personal nature.  If you had  
> done a better job of ease dropping you would have known this.  We  
> simple discussed issue of this neighborhood over the past ten years,  
> none of which had anything to do with you and I should know because  
> it was my words and I know better than you what I said.  Thirdly,  
> you have no business engaging in this kind of slander especially  
> speaking on behalf of the board.  You accuse me of high school like  
> behavior while you yourself is engaging in the very act while  
> writing this crap.  The only thing I am guilty of is talking to my  
> neighbor.  You should be ashamed.
>
> This is what you are going to do, you are going to apologize to me  
> and my family both personally and publicly on this forum you  
> created.  No excuses either, we are well beyond that.  I would also  
> like to here from the President of this board as well, I do not pay  
> my dues to be slandered in this way when participating in a NHOA  
> advent.
>
> Erik Leckwold
>
>
> On Apr 5, 2009, at 8:14 AM, Kimberly Hackler wrote:
>
>> I hate to spend my personal time addressing yet another situation  
>> but I am absolutely tired of being attacked.  Constructive  
>> criticism is one thing; complaining, bickering, and attacking is  
>> another.
>> For over a week,  Alan Isdell tirelessly installed the new swingset  
>> at the playground.  Do you know what that means?  He took his  
>> personal time away from his child so that your child(ren) would  
>> have a safe, and improved, playset.  He and my husband were down  
>> there early yesterday finishing up and putting down mulch for your  
>> enjoyment at the Easter Egg Hunt.  Alan installed it to save the  
>> HOA budget the $700 Home Depot would have charged for installation.
>> Surely everyone saw it going up, since it wasn't an overnight  
>> project, so did anyone call and offer to help?  Brandon Harris was  
>> the only person that actually stopped by and helped Alan out.   
>> Thanks to Brandon and shame on the rest of you.  But even worse, I  
>> didn't hear one "thanks" yesterday.  Wow, that really motivates you  
>> to work harder.  The members of this Board spend more personal time  
>> making repairs to save money on labor charges than you'll ever  
>> know. Their families sacrifice because their time could be spent  
>> with their family and their own home improvement projects.
>>
>> Here's the bigger issue. While the Rago's and Lechwold's (Harbor  
>> Lane) children were enjoying the new playset, commentary between  
>> them included that "the Board was sanctimonious and on a powertrip  
>> with the proposed covenants".  One of them also said that "the  
>> Board members were the biggest offenders of the documents".  Every  
>> Board member, and Committee Chair, have full-time jobs with  
>> tremendous responsibilities for personnel and P& L.  We all have  
>> enough to keep up with in our own lives; we don't need Board  
>> positions to feel good about ourselves.  We do this because we're  
>> committed to the neighborhood.  But that commitment is being tested.
>> Let me remind them, and everyone, that we are not in high school  
>> anymore.  Overhearing this crap yesterday reminded me of the petty  
>> behavior that occurs among high school halls.  This type of  
>> behavior is the core at the toxicity that continues to trickle  
>> through the neighborhood; not a disagreement of the covenants  
>> content itself.
>> Such behavior is rude, disrespectful, negative, and (really) pretty  
>> cowardly.  It's cowardly because most of the Board were in  
>> attendance so why couldn't they come over and say "Hey, we're  
>> concerned that you're offending the rules and that you're on a  
>> power trip." Maybe it would have led to some clarifying  
>> conversation. Instead, you attack us literally right behind our  
>> backs.  I only hope you teach your children better manners that  
>> what you displayed yesterday.  I'm so tired of defending and  
>> explaining but if you're going to attack something that I'm a part  
>> of behind my back, I have the right to bring such behavior into the  
>> light of day.  Have the courage to constructively approach the  
>> Board if you have issues & quit the petty back-stabbing. It's in  
>> bad taste and it certainly isn't a good example to others, nor or  
>> children.
>> So, it's obvious to me that the Rago's and Lechwold's think they  
>> can do a better job with the proposed documents.  The voting was  
>> extended until May 1, 2009 and we urge you to vote, regardless of  
>> how you vote.
>>  Mr. & Mrs Rago/Mr. & Mrs. Lechwold:  if the vote doesn't go one  
>> way or the other, it's best to continue to work on them for  
>> approval.  Since you have better ways to do such, you can take the  
>> project over on May 2nd.
>> I'll have all of the documentation ready to go, along with how to  
>> contact our HOA attorney, so please contact me, via email, to  
>> arrange a time to pick them up.
>> Mr. Rago, you suggested we have a BBQ at the pool opening.  We  
>> think that's a great idea so will you attend the next Board meeting  
>> (2nd Tuesday at 7:00) and take the lead on the event?  The HOA  
>> budget could pay for the meat and the neighbors could bring sides.   
>> Scott Smith's Board had one and I heard positive things about it..
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