[Nhhoa] Pool inspection
Amanda Brown
mandy22726 at yahoo.com
Tue Jun 3 12:23:35 CDT 2008
I agree. I think people need to understand that if you were gonna keep the pool unsafe and not do your job then you wouldnt let your family down there. I think you are doing a wonderful job!!
Amanda Brown
--- On Tue, 6/3/08, valerie1953 at comcast.net <valerie1953 at comcast.net> wrote:
> From: valerie1953 at comcast.net <valerie1953 at comcast.net>
> Subject: Re: [Nhhoa] Pool inspection
> To: "North Hampton Homeowners Association" <nhhoa at nhhoa.org>
> Date: Tuesday, June 3, 2008, 12:18 PM
> Thank you Walker for being so diligent to stop all this
> nonsense, Have a great day!
> Valerie
>
> -------------- Original message --------------
> From: walker.owen at fedex.com
>
> Bartow county health department responded to a complaint on
> our pool this AM. They found all chemical levels, signs,
> life safety equipment, etc. To be in full compliance.
>
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: manfredmartin
> Sent: 06/03/2008 11:43 AM GMT
> To: North Hampton Homeowners Association
> <nhhoa at nhhoa.org>
> Subject: Re: [Nhhoa] Outside pool visitors
>
>
>
> Of course this is a great community, unfortunately the
> negative gets more attention than the positive as we can
> all see with the news media. It would be great to hear all
> about the good happenings, but the human nature in us seems
> to have missed the excitement in that.
> Fred Martin
>
> -------------- Original message --------------
> From: rwegowan at bellsouth.net
>
>
> I do agree with you that this is sad, but as I once again
> attempt to wade through this electronic minefield of spite
> and vindictiveness I am no longer certain I can agree
> with your assessment of North Hampton as a "great
> community".
>
>
>
> -------------- Original message from
> manfredmartin at comcast.net: --------------
>
>
> Hey Roger, I think it is just a case of lack of respect for
> others, and the North Hampton home owners responsible for
> abusing the system are showing exactly that, lack of
> respect. I think the only method that will make people like
> that take notice is to have stricter rules, like one guest
> per home owner and a fine for abusing the system, which
> unfortunately will make it tough on all those people who
> always do the right thing by their neighbors. Updating the
> lock mechanism, no matter how hi-tec, will not discourage
> anyone from abusing the system and the expense, we have to
> wear that too.
>
> It's sad to see this happening in a great community
> like ours, but we can't just stand by and be taken
> advantage off. More ideas?? Fred
> Martin
>
> -------------- Original message --------------
> From: treasurer at nhhoa.org
>
> > One idea that the board is discussing is to replace
> the current code lock with a
> > lock system that would require a card for entru and to
> strengthen the gate
> > closer to ensure that it closes every time. The only
> way in would be to have a
> > card.
> >
> > One card would be issued to each house and it would be
> up to the resident to
> > coordinate the card usage.
> >
> > This will not work though if people let unknown people
> into the pool area.
> >
> > It is not overly expensive, but was not budgeted for
> this year.
> >
> > Could everyone please give feedback regarding this
> idea?
> >
> > Will it work? Will you not let unauthorized people in?
> What do you think about
> > limiting the number of guests allowed?
> >
> > Would you be willing for the board to approve using
> some reserve funds (approx
> > $1000) to secure the pool or would you rather wait
> until another year to fund
> > the project?
> >
> > All feedback and any other ideas are greatly
> appreciated.
> >
> > Roger Hackler
> > Treasurer
> > Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T
> >
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Amanda Brown
> >
> > Date: Mon, 2 Jun 2008 16:15:57
> > To:North Hampton Homeowners Association
> > Subject: Re: [Nhhoa] Outside pool visitors
> >
> >
> > I had the same problem Saturday night, we ended up
> leaving after they wouldn't
> > leave. The kids came in a van and tried to squeal the
> tires in the parking lot.
> > I heard them say they are from whispering pines, they
> were very rude and
> > obnoxious. What should we do?
> >
> > Amanda Brown
> >
> >
> > --- On Mon , 6/2/08, Jennifer Martin wrote:
> >
> > > From: Jennifer Martin
> > > Subject: [Nhhoa] Outside pool visitors
> > > To: "North Hampton Homeowners
> Association"
> > > Date: Monday, June 2, 2008, 2:13 PM
> > > Hi Gang,
> > > My little family and I went to the pool today and
> had an
> > > excellent time. It's great to have the
> opportunity for
> > > my kids to play with others in the neighborhood.
> > >
> > > However, at one point I counted 16 people in the
> pool that
> > > were not from our neighborhood. I tried (which is
> VERY
> > > hard for me) to confront them about having to
> have a
> > > homeowner with them while using the amenities,
> but that
> > > didn't work. Needless to say, it was rather
> crowded.
> > >
> > > I'm not good at confrontation. Any
> suggestions?
> > > ;
> & gt; > In addition, the pool and bathrooms look
> great. Thank you
> > > board and other volunteers for the work you do
> for our
> > > neighborhood :)
> > > Jennifer Martin
> > > ESOL Instructor
> > > White Elementary
> > > Pine Log Elementary
> > > ----- Original Message -----
> > > From: Roger Hackler
> > > To: 'North Hampton Homeowners
> Association'
> > > Sent: Sunday, June 01, 2008 8:15 PM
> > > Subject: [Nhhoa] Peaceful Coexistance
> > >
> > >
> > > Here are some helpful suggestions for achieving a
>
> > > peaceful coexistence with your neighbor:
> > >
> > > Before There is a Concern:
> > >
> > > Meet your neighbor. Introduce yourself at the
> mailbox,
> > > when taking a walk, or when you see the moving
> boxes
> > > arrive. Learning your neighbors' name and
> regularly
> > > offering a cordial "good mornin g" or
> > > "hello" can be the start of a positive
> > > relationship. Don't worry about whether or
> not they
> > > reciprocate. The important thing is that you are
> making an
> > > effort. Don't wait until you have a problem
> to meet
> > > your neighbor.
> > >
> > > Keep your neighbors informed. Contact your
> neighbors
> > > before you do something that might affect
> them-such as
> > > hosting a big party, building a fence, cutting
> down a tree,
> > > or getting a new dog. Informing your neighbors
> ahead of time
> > > allows them to make plans or tell you how your
> project will
> > > affect them. Getting their input lets you act in
> a way that
> > > avoids problems.
> > >
> > > Observe the Golden Rule. Treat your neighbors the
> way
> > > they would like to be treated. Set an example by
> being
> > > considerate about noise from vehicles, tools,
> stereos ,
> & gt; &g t; group activities and pets.
> > >
> > > Be aware of differences. Differences in age,
> ethnic
> > > background, years in the neighborhood, etc. can
> lead to
> > > conflicting expectations or misunderstandings
> unless you
> > > make an effort to communicate and understand each
> other.
> > >
> > > Consider your neighbors' view. How does your
> compost
> > > pile, dog run, or son's car parts look from
> your
> > > neighbors' backyard or windows? Keep areas
> that are in
> > > others' view reasonably presentable.
> > >
> > > Be appreciative. If your neighbor does something
> you
> > > like, tell them! They will be pleased that you
> noticed the
> > > yard work or the new paint job. It will be easier
> to talk
> > > later when they do something that you don't
> like.
> > >
> > > When There is a Problem:
> > >
> > > Don't assume tha t disc ussing it will ag
> gravate your
> > > neighbor. Your neighbors can't help resolve a
> problem
> > > they don't know exists. Focus on:
> > >
> > > â– Learning rather than delivering a message
> > >
> > > â– Understanding rather than blaming
> > >
> > > â– Joint problem solving rather than who is at
>
> > > fault
> > >
> > > If you use these approaches, the conversation
> will
> > > usually go better than you think. Neighbors are
> often not
> > > aware that their actions are negatively affecting
> others.
> > > Usually, people are willing to make changes if
> you approach
> > > them respectfully.
> > >
> > > Don't assume you know your neighbors'
> intentions.
> > > If your neighbor does something that irritates
> you,
> > > don't assume that it was done on purpose.
> Presume the
> > > neighbor doesn't know about the annoyance.
> Giving them > > the benefit of the doubt will make it
> easier for you to
> > > talk about the situation.
> > >
> > > Don't wait to talk about things that bother
> you. If
> > > your neighbor does something that bothers you,
> let them
> > > know. By communicating early and calmly, you take
> a big
> > > step forward toward resolving the problem.
> Don't wait
> > > until a minor irritation becomes a major issue
> and makes it
> > > difficult to discuss.
> > >
> > > Separate the person from the problem. Conflict
> can happen
> > > whenever two or more people interact with one
> another. It
> > > occurs because we are all unique individuals with
> different
> > > perspectives, values, and needs. Focusing on the
> issue, not
> > > the person will allow you to take care of the
> problem while
> > > maintaining or improving your relationship with
> your
> > > neighbor.
> > >
> & gt; &g t; Be respectful. Talk directly with the
> neighbor involved
> > > with the problem. Don't gossip or spread
> rumors with
> > > other neighbors. Gossip damages relationships and
> can hurt
> > > other people. Problem solving is only possible
> when we
> > > treat each other with respect.
> > >
> > > Be calm. If a neighbor approaches you accusingly
> about a
> > > difficulty, listen carefully and thank them for
> telling you
> > > how they feel. You don't have to agree or
> justify your
> > > behavior. If you can listen and not react
> defensively, then
> > > their anger will subside, the lines of
> communication will
> > > remain open, and there is a good chance of
> working things
> > > out.
> > >
> > > Listen well. When you discuss a problem, try to
> > > understand how your neighbor feels about an issue
> and why.
> > > Understanding is not the same as agreeing, but wi
> ll
> > > increas e the likelihood of a solution that works
> for you
> > > both. Summarize what you hear and ask questions
> to clarify
> > > your understanding of their view of the problem.
> > >
> > > If things get heated, take a break. If you need
> to, take
> > > a break to calm down and think about what you and
> your
> > > neighbor have discussed. Arrange a time to finish
> the
> > > conversation later, and then do so. It's hard
> to
> > > problem solve when you are having a heated
> discussion.
> > >
> > > Constructive communication can resolve conflict,
> and
> > > talking things over directly is the best way to
> handle
> > > problems, and avoid enforcement or the courts.
> > >
> > > From the City of Beaverton Oregon Dispute
> Resolution
> > > Center.
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
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